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The biggest problem with still plaguing most guys trying to be pick up artists is a lack of dominance and presence. Learning how to open sets, talk to women, and all the other PUA tactics don’t actually make you a more attractive man, it just gives you more opportunities to meet women. That’s what I [...]

Last month, I jumped on the ABC’s of Attraction Webinar to participate on the Questions and Answers Panel. I’ve been out of the community for quite some time but was surprised how many guys are still having the exact same problems with women when I left. So I decided to host a free webinar of [...]

There is a lot of discussion on line about whether or not pick up artist bootcamps work. I actually hate the term “Pick Up Artist Bootcamp” as that no longer described what we the program is about. More appropriately it would be called Basic Lifestyle Skills for Attractive Confident Men, things that your older brother [...]

Someone asked me on Facebook today what are some Positive Hobbies that you can have that will actually attract women in your life and make your lifestyle more attractive, and what are some things that you shouldn’t be wasting your time doing. Hobbies and your career are going to take up the majority of your [...]

JT, the Asian Playboy posted up this photo recently on his facebook with this caption: “You see this beautiful girl reading a book by the pool. What would your opener be?” A lot of people replied, including the man himself, Erik von Markovik aka Mystery. Mystery is the world’s best Pick Up Artist, and his [...]

What’s up everyone, bro, I just got back from the craziest bootcamp ever. Actually, every Full Moon Party bootcamp I’ve ever taught has been crazy so it was kind of expected. Here are some photos and a review that Justin my 1 on 1 student wrote up on the forums. Review originally posted on the [...]

I was out with some friends and one girl mentioned a time that a random guy stopped her on the street and flat out asked, “Would you like to go back to my apartment?” The crazy thing is, even though she didn’t do it, she admitted to considering it for a second. She said that [...]

Often I find myself watching pointless Youtube videos just because the screen shot was of a hot girl. I’m sure it’s something that most guys do. Take a look at the following photos for a second…(like I had to really ask.) Crap I just wasted 20 minutes googling “hot chicks” to find these photos. Stay [...]

If you didn’t already know, I’m Chinese by Ethnicity, American by Nationality, Asian-American by Culture and Taiwanese by Heritage. Confusing I know, it took me years to figure out what the fuck the difference was between Race, Ethnicity, Heritage and Nationality is. My Father was born in China while my grandfather was a General in [...]

I still remember the first time I used the game to pick up a random girl at a bar and kiss her that very same night. It was Thanksgiving night and I was out with my cousins at a random bar in San Francisco. I was still relatively new to the game but had been [...]

The Game, Pick Up, and the Community have both helped me as well as hurt me more than you may know. I’m turning 32 this year and I’m sick of playing silly games. I’m going to man the fuck up, grow the fuck up and be as genuine as possible, both to myself and to [...]

I was telling a friend today that I would love to move to the south someday, maybe to Texas or Tennessee. I had just met this guy through a friend today but he seemed like a really good guy, but he was shocked. He’s your typical 30 year old computer programmer Asian guy. Smart, wears [...]

There are some things I know about Bootcamps and the community that I never said publicly, but here it is. The Truth about the PUA Summit: Here’s the raw deal about the PUA Summit. The reason why I first started it was because I wanted to meet all of the legends of pick up without [...]

I didn’t tell anyone this but I’ve been living in Pacific Beach, San Diego for the last two months and it was awesome. A buddy of mine, Josh that works for Sasha Daygame was generous enough to let me stay at his place while he’s touring the U.S. in an RV. For those who don’t [...]

We had 7 students total, one whom spent well over two grand flying here from Europe and paying for the bootcamp. When one of the other students (a white guy from SF) asked him how he was so fearless and did everything I said without hesitation he answered: “I spent all of this money flying [...]

I just got back from teaching a PUA Bootcamp in Vancouver, Canada and it was hella fun. I can’t believe how different girls are in Vancouver vs. in Toronto. I figured it was all Canada but everything about the two cities are completely different. If I lived in Vancouver here would be my game plan: [...]

What if I could tell you that you can meet and date the women of your dreams, and maintain a relationship in as little as four hours a week. Well you can. I was inspired to write this book by my favorite author, Timothy Ferris who wrote the 4-hour workweek, a book about stream lining [...]

Rule #1 – If you can’t dance, don’t dance. There are plenty of guys that meet girls at bars and clubs that never dance. Heck, there are plenty of guys that end up marrying a girl still not knowing how to dance. Just avoid the dance floor, and meet girls near the bar or the [...]

Everytime I go to an Asian club, I’m the biggest guy there and guys always come up to me giving me props and asking me how much I bench and squat. There are benefits to being big. Guys give you respect and don’t fuck with you. You can walk through a crowd easily since people [...]

I just turned 31 and life is getting better each year as I get older. I finally know who I am, what I want, what I like, and what I will and will not put up with. And as far as my dating and love life, it’s helped. Girls are attracted to men that know [...]